Ep 145: The Myth of Emotional Balance

Seeking Emotional Normalcy

Summary

  • We naturally focus on negative emotions for survival reasons.
  • There’s a paradox from being too negative to toxic positivity.
  • We tend to focus more on another person’s negative emotions.
  • How much time do we spend paying to attention to our negative experiences?
  • When we focus on an emotion, we can tend to make that emotion bigger, the negative ones then feel worse than the original emotion.
  • Normalise having the range of all emotions, feeling each at 100%.
  • With positive emotions we tend to minimise them and not allowing that experience.
  • Coming from a place of curiosity for all emotions can help guide children to understanding their full range.
  • There’s no hierarchy of emotions.