Ep 141: Why Kids Aren’t Grateful (and Some Adults)

Dealing with Complex Emotions like Gratitude, Empathy and Motivation

Summary

  • Emotional maturity happens around 25 years of age.
  • Children are born with survival emotions (fear, anger, joy, sadness, surprise, disgust) but don’t have the ability yet for the complex emotions like gratitude.
  • “Thank you” is social decorum and not gratitude.
  • Young children, first, need to learn how to process feelings.
  • Emotional regulation in adults and children is about managing the survival emotions (F.A.S.T. emotions).
  • To practice gratitude write down each day one thing about one person you’re grateful for (do this for one person for six months).
  • The main blocker to practicing and manifesting gratitude in our lives is the cycle with the F.A.S.T emotions.
  • Reference to F.A.S.T emotions (our survival emotions) Episode 122.